Hi, guys —
My wife was baptized in a non-Denominational
Protestant church (In the name of the Father,
and the Son, and the Holy Ghost). Her father
is Roman Catholic; her mother is Methodist.
She was married to another Protestant but
was later divorced from him. Until recently
she has attended a Catholic liturgy only sporadically,
with most of her worship being in a Protestant
church.
I was baptized and confirmed as a Byzantine
Catholic. I have been away from the Church
for almost 20 years and have recently begun
attending weekly liturgy again in a Byzantine
Parish.
My wife has been coming with me and very much
desires to convert, specifically to the Byzantine
Rite. She has met with our pastor and has
begun studying the Catechism he gave
to her.
When my wife and I were married almost two years
ago, I was not concerned about doing so with
the blessing of the Catholic Church, but as
I have come back to the Church I would like
to be married in the Church and begin receiving
the sacraments again.
- I know the Church will recognize her previous
Protestant marriage as valid and she will
have to apply for an annulment for us to
be married in the Church, but since her
father is Roman Catholic and your religion
is supposed to be patriarchal, could my wife be considered a Roman Catholic?
I know this might be a stretch, but if possible,
we would like to avoid the long process of
an annulment.
Guy
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Mary
Ann replied:
Dear Guy,
The second to last paragraph of your
question contains some misconceptions.
The Church presumes her previous
marriage is valid, but would examine
it for possible causes of invalidity.
The Church doesn't annul valid marriages,
but looks to see if they are valid
to begin with.
There
is a Scriptural privilege called
the Pauline privilege, which might
be applicable if she wants to convert.
By this privilege, a marriage can
be annulled so that one party can
convert though it is more complex than
that.
As for the religion being patriarchal,
it is not like the Jews, where the
identity is inherited.
One is Catholic only by Baptism in the
Church.
Finally, don't worry about the annulment
process, it's not as bad as people
fear and check into the Pauline privilege.
Mary Ann
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